How it works
First birthday party games for adults solve an odd problem: the guest of honor cannot play and may nap through half the party. These games are for everyone else, from a first-year quiz to a time capsule.
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Plan around the nap, not the clock
A one-year-old sets the schedule, so pick games by what the baby is doing. While the baby is awake, choose Games the birthday baby joins in the All games menu, such as Crawl to Me. For the nap, choose Quiet enough for nap time. Put two from Guessing tables that run themselves by the door for late arrivals.
Where the grab table comes from
Guess the Grab borrows from the doljabi, part of the Korean first birthday. The child sits before a table of objects, and the first one picked up is said to show where luck lies. It is based on an older Chinese custom, zhuazhou. If this is your family's tradition, follow your elders, not this page.
- Only the parents have the answers, so write the quiz key and the prediction cards by hand at home.
- For any game on the floor, swap coins for a wallet, and keep balloons, pens and marbles out of reach.
Questions and answers
Which games can the baby take part in?
The ones under Games the birthday baby joins, such as Guess the Grab, Toy or Box and Crawl to Me. The adults do the guessing. Stop as soon as the baby looks tired, and count that as the baby winning.
Do these work if most guests have no kids?
Yes, and the baby-skill races are funnier that way. Swaddle the Teddy, Sock Pair Sprint and Two People, One Onesie need no experience. Nothing here quizzes guests on child care or compares babies.
What can guests do at an open house first birthday?
Side-table games run all afternoon without a host: Guests as Babies Photo Wall, Weigh the Diaper Bag and First Steps Calendar. Read the results out when the cake is cut.