Etiquette Trivia Questions

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In a Western table setting, on which side of the dinner plate do the forks go?

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These etiquette trivia questions and answers treat manners as facts: which side the forks go on, how far a formal bow tilts in a Japanese office, what Regrets only asks of a guest, and where the word etiquette comes from.

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Five rounds, from the fork to the flag

At the table lays a formal place and finds a use for the finger bowl. Greetings around the world asks what the first handshakes showed. Invitations, titles and flags sorts black tie from white tie and Ms. from Mrs. The history of manners goes from an Egyptian vizier to Emily Post.

Wedding etiquette trivia questions

Wedding etiquette is a short round for a shower or a rehearsal dinner: whose names open the invitation, what a receiving line is for and which queen made the white dress the fashion. The questions describe customs; none says a custom is right.

  • Customs differ between families and countries. If a guest learned it another way, the linked article shows what the question meant.

Questions and answers

What are some easy etiquette trivia questions?

On which side of the plate do the forks go? Where does a napkin belong during the meal? Who is addressed as Your Majesty? The answers are the left, your lap, and a king or a queen.

Where does the word etiquette come from?

From French, where étiquette means a label or tag; the word also goes back to the French for ticket. Lord Chesterfield used it in its modern English sense in his Letters to His Son, published in 1774.

Which fork do you use first at a formal dinner?

The outermost one. Utensils are laid in the order they are used, so a salad fork sits outside the dinner fork. Forks go to the left of the plate, knives and spoons to the right.

How were the answers checked?

Each was read on October 8, 2026 in the English Wikipedia article linked under it. Tipping amounts, which change, drinking customs and greetings another quiz here asks, such as the wai and the hongi, were left out.

All 51 questions with answers

At the table 12

  • A charger is a large plate set at each place for a formal dinner. What is it for? Answer: Dressing the table; no food is served on it. Source: Wikipedia: Charger (table setting)
  • At a formal Chinese dinner, which way does the seat of honor usually face? Answer: East, or toward the entrance. Source: Wikipedia: Customs and etiquette in Chinese dining
  • At a formal place setting, which utensils do you pick up first? Answer: The outermost ones. Source: Wikipedia: Table setting
  • At a shared meal, when is it polite to start eating? Answer: When everyone has been served. Source: Wikipedia: Table manners
  • In a Western table setting, on which side of the dinner plate do the forks go? Answer: The left. Source: Wikipedia: Table setting
  • In Japan, what do diners say to the host after a meal? Answer: Gochisōsama-deshita. Source: Wikipedia: Customs and etiquette in Japanese dining
  • In Japanese restaurants, customers are given a rolled hand towel. What is it called? Answer: Oshibori. Source: Wikipedia: Customs and etiquette in Japanese dining
  • In the United States, what does a diner signal by laying knife and fork together at the 4 o'clock position? Answer: That the plate may be taken away. Source: Wikipedia: Eating utensil etiquette
  • What is a finger bowl for? Answer: Rinsing your fingers. Source: Wikipedia: Finger bowl
  • Where does a napkin belong during the meal? Answer: On your lap. Source: Wikipedia: Table manners
  • Which way does the blade of a table knife face in a formal setting? Answer: Toward the plate. Source: Wikipedia: Table setting
  • You have to leave the table in the middle of a meal. Where does the napkin go? Answer: On the seat of your chair. Source: Wikipedia: Table manners

Greetings around the world 8

  • According to one theory, what did the first handshakes show? Answer: That the hand held no weapon. Source: Wikipedia: Handshake
  • In Japanese business manners the casual bow called eshaku tilts the upper body about 15 degrees. About how far does the more formal keirei tilt? Answer: 30 degrees. Source: Wikipedia: Bowing in Japan
  • One of the earliest known pictures of a handshake is a relief of the 9th century BC. Which people carved it? Answer: The Assyrians. Source: Wikipedia: Handshake
  • The origin of the military hand salute is uncertain. In one account it began with a Roman citizen raising the right hand to show what? Answer: That he carried no weapon. Source: Wikipedia: Salute
  • What did the ancient Greeks call the handshake? Answer: Dexiosis. Source: Wikipedia: Handshake
  • What does a person do in a curtsy? Answer: Bends the knees while bowing the head. Source: Wikipedia: Curtsy
  • What does the word namaste literally mean? Answer: Bowing to you. Source: Wikipedia: Namaste
  • What is a hat tip? Answer: Lifting or tipping the hat as a sign of respect. Source: Wikipedia: Hat tip

Invitations, titles and flags 11

  • According to the United States Flag Code, the flag should never be used as which of these? Answer: Clothing, bedding or drapery. Source: Wikipedia: United States Flag Code
  • Americans say tuxedo. What do the British call the same jacket? Answer: A dinner jacket. Source: Wikipedia: Black tie
  • An invitation says "Regrets only". What should a guest who plans to come do? Answer: Nothing; no answer counts as yes. Source: Wikipedia: RSVP
  • In the days of visiting cards, what did a card with a turned corner tell the household? Answer: The caller had left it in person. Source: Wikipedia: Visiting card
  • In which century did the tradition of flying a flag at half-mast begin? Answer: The 17th century. Source: Wikipedia: Half-mast
  • Morning dress is the formal dress code for which occasions? Answer: Daytime events. Source: Wikipedia: Morning dress
  • When a monarch says "we" and means "I", what is that called? Answer: The royal we. Source: Wikipedia: Royal we
  • Which dress code is the most formal for the evening? Answer: White tie. Source: Wikipedia: White tie
  • Which form of address is generally used for an ambassador? Answer: Your Excellency. Source: Wikipedia: Excellency
  • Who is addressed as "Your Majesty"? Answer: A king or a queen. Source: Wikipedia: Majesty
  • Why was the title Ms. brought back into use? Answer: It does not depend on whether a woman is married. Source: Wikipedia: Ms.

Wedding etiquette 7

  • At a wedding dinner, what does a place card tell a guest? Answer: Which table to sit at. Source: Wikipedia: Place card
  • The bridal shower is said to have grown out of which older practice? Answer: The dowry. Source: Wikipedia: Bridal shower
  • In a receiving line at a wedding, what do the couple and their hosts do? Answer: Greet every guest in turn. Source: Wikipedia: Wedding reception
  • In Chinese and Indian tradition, which color do brides often wear? Answer: Red. Source: Wikipedia: Wedding dress
  • On a British wedding invitation, when is the wording "pleasure of your company" used? Answer: When the ceremony is not in a house of worship. Source: Wikipedia: Wedding invitation
  • On a traditional wedding invitation, whose names come first? Answer: The bride's parents. Source: Wikipedia: Wedding invitation
  • Which queen made the white wedding dress fashionable? Answer: Queen Victoria. Source: Wikipedia: Wedding dress

The history of manners 13

  • As a youth George Washington was guided by a set of maxims called the Rules of Civility. How many rules were there? Answer: 110. Source: Wikipedia: Etiquette
  • The Book of the Courtier, of 1528, gave the world the Italian word sprezzatura. What does it mean? Answer: Effortless grace. Source: Wikipedia: Sprezzatura
  • Emily Post published her famous book on manners in 1922. What is its short title? Answer: Etiquette. Source: Wikipedia: Emily Post
  • Il Galateo, a guide to polite behavior, was published in Venice in 1558. Who wrote it? Answer: Giovanni della Casa. Source: Wikipedia: Il Galateo
  • In French, étiquette means a label or tag. To what else does the English word etiquette go back? Answer: The French word for a ticket. Source: Wikipedia: Etiquette
  • In online manners, what is typing in all capital letters taken to mean? Answer: Shouting. Source: Wikipedia: Etiquette in technology
  • In service à la russe, how do the dishes of a dinner arrive? Answer: One after another, served to each guest. Source: Wikipedia: Service à la russe
  • The traveler Thomas Coryat is often credited with bringing which item to England? Answer: The table fork. Source: Wikipedia: Thomas Coryat
  • Where was the personal table fork most likely invented? Answer: The Byzantine Empire. Source: Wikipedia: Fork
  • Which book, published in 1774, holds the first use of the word etiquette in its modern English sense? Answer: Lord Chesterfield's Letters to His Son. Source: Wikipedia: Etiquette
  • Which French king used a strict code of etiquette to tame his nobles at Versailles? Answer: Louis XIV. Source: Wikipedia: Etiquette
  • Who wrote On Civility in Children, a handbook of 1530? Answer: Erasmus of Rotterdam. Source: Wikipedia: On Civility in Children
  • Who wrote The Maxims of Ptahhotep, an early book of advice on good conduct? Answer: A vizier of ancient Egypt. Source: Wikipedia: Etiquette