10 Things in Common Icebreaker Questions

Small groups hunt for ten things every member shares, one prompt at a time.

A thing every one of you does at the very last minute.

Read the card to each group. They hunt for one shared answer.

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How it works

These 10 things in common icebreaker questions are prompts for a group game: small groups look for ten things that every member shares, and the obvious ones do not count. Each card is one place to look.

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The game in three steps

Split the room into small groups and give each a pen. Read a card: "A thing all of you have lost at least once." Each group talks until every member shares one answer and writes it down, then you press Next card. The first group with ten reads its list out.

Common ground icebreaker questions by topic

Press Topic for Food, Places, Habits, Skills and hobbies, Likes and dislikes or Odd ones. Easy cards match fast. Medium ones take a few questions: "A word in another language that all of you know."

Tips
  • Rule out the obvious before you start: being in this room or having two ears does not count.
  • With a single small group, skip the race and see how many matches ten cards bring.

Questions and answers

How does the ten things in common icebreaker work?

Small groups get a set time to find ten things that everyone in the group has in common, and one person writes them down. Obvious answers are ruled out. When time is up, each group shares its most interesting finds.

Why use prompts when a group could just talk?

A blank page stalls. A prompt such as A place where every one of you has sung out loud gives the group a question to ask each other, and the matches they find are better stories than what everyone is wearing.

Can one person answer these cards?

No, and that is the point. Every card names something a whole group shares, so nobody can answer alone. For questions that each person answers alone, use the main icebreaker deck.

All 120 prompts

Food 20

  • A breakfast every one of you would say yes to.
  • A candy all of you would trade for.
  • A condiment all of you keep in the kitchen.
  • A cooking job all of you avoid.
  • A dessert that would vanish if you shared one plate.
  • A dish every one of you has cooked for other people.
  • A food all of you have burnt.
  • A food all of you have tried exactly once.
  • A food all of you would order again.
  • A food every one of you eats in an unusual way.
  • A food none of you will eat.
  • A food smell every one of you loves.
  • A fruit all of you like.
  • A meal all of you could eat three days running.
  • A pizza topping every one of you likes.
  • A sandwich filling all of you agree on.
  • A snack all of you would hide from the others.
  • A soup all of you like.
  • A vegetable all of you came round to.
  • An ice cream flavor every one of you likes.

Places 20

  • A kind of place none of you has ever visited.
  • A kind of restaurant all of you would pick.
  • A kind of room all of you like best.
  • A kind of shop all of you like to wander through.
  • A kind of trip none of you would take.
  • A kind of weather every one of you would travel for.
  • A landmark, park or building all of you have seen in person.
  • A place every one of you has turned up early for.
  • A place none of you wants to be at six in the morning.
  • A place where all of you have gotten lost.
  • A place where all of you have waited far too long in line.
  • A place where all of you like to read, think or listen.
  • A place where every one of you has dozed off by accident.
  • A place where every one of you has sung out loud.
  • A seat all of you choose on a bus, a train or a plane.
  • A thing all of you can see from where you sit.
  • An outdoor spot all of you like: beach, woods, hills or water.
  • Somewhere all of you have been in the last week.
  • Somewhere all of you would go on a free afternoon.
  • Somewhere every one of you has been.

Habits 20

  • A chore all of you put off.
  • A chore none of you minds.
  • A habit all of you are trying to start.
  • A rule all of you follow in your own kitchen.
  • A story all of you know the ending of.
  • A thing all of you always carry.
  • A thing all of you do before leaving home.
  • A thing all of you do on a day off.
  • A thing all of you do to stay awake.
  • A thing all of you do when a favorite song comes on.
  • A thing all of you do with a phone that is not a call or a message.
  • A thing all of you forget at the store.
  • A thing every one of you does at the very last minute.
  • A thing every one of you does while waiting.
  • A thing every one of you keeps on a desk or a nightstand.
  • A thing every one of you saves and never uses.
  • A thing none of you can do without a list.
  • A time of day when every one of you is at your best.
  • A way all of you like to unwind.
  • Something every one of you does the night before a big day.

Skills and hobbies 20

  • A craft all of you tried once.
  • A game all of you know how to play.
  • A game all of you would rather watch than play.
  • A hobby every one of you has started and dropped.
  • A puzzle every one of you likes: crossword, jigsaw, numbers or word search.
  • A skill every one of you picked up before you were ten.
  • A sport or activity all of you have tried at least once.
  • A talent none of you would show on a stage.
  • A thing all of you can do one-handed.
  • A thing all of you can do that you think no other group can.
  • A thing all of you can make by hand.
  • A thing all of you collected at some point.
  • A thing all of you have fixed yourselves.
  • A thing any one of you could teach the rest before lunch.
  • A thing every one of you does outdoors.
  • A thing every one of you would like to be better at.
  • A thing none of you has ever built.
  • A word in another language that all of you know.
  • An instrument none of you plays.
  • Something none of you can do.

Likes and dislikes 20

  • A color all of you would wear.
  • A flavor all of you like.
  • A kind of film none of you would pick.
  • A kind of game all of you dislike.
  • A kind of music every one of you turns off.
  • A kind of shoe all of you find comfortable.
  • A kind of story all of you like.
  • A kind of weather all of you enjoy.
  • A month none of you likes.
  • A season every one of you likes.
  • A small treat every one of you would choose.
  • A smell none of you can stand.
  • A sound that annoys all of you.
  • A texture none of you likes to touch.
  • A thing all of you find funny.
  • A thing all of you think deserves more fans.
  • A thing every one of you thinks is overrated.
  • A way to spend a rainy day that all of you like.
  • A word all of you dislike.
  • An animal all of you like.

Odd ones 20

  • A letter that is in every one of your names.
  • A mistake every one of you has made with a phone, a door or a key.
  • A thing all of you believed as a child.
  • A thing all of you have broken.
  • A thing all of you have done in the rain.
  • A thing all of you have found on the ground and kept.
  • A thing all of you have in a kitchen drawer.
  • A thing all of you have lost at least once.
  • A thing all of you have stayed up late for.
  • A thing all of you have waited in a very long line for.
  • A thing all of you have won, however small.
  • A thing all of you once pretended to like.
  • A thing every one of you did this morning.
  • A thing every one of you has more of than you need.
  • A thing every one of you has said out loud today.
  • A thing every one of you is carrying right now.
  • A thing none of you can remember learning.
  • A thing none of you has done this year.
  • A thing none of you has ever eaten.
  • A word all of you spell wrong.
How this list was compiled

Own work: prompts written by the Game Night Generator editors for this page in September 2026 for the ten-things-in-common icebreaker. No list was copied. The rule of the game was read in two published guides: small groups write a list of what all their members have in common and are told to avoid the obvious (Icebreakers, Team Building Activities, and Energizers, a facilitator's guide read as the PDF at https://sixth.ucsd.edu/_files/_home/student-life/icebreakers-teambuilding-activities-energizers.pdf on 2026-09-30 (its Common Ground entry)), and the target is ten things that everyone in the group has in common, written down by one member (Marilyn Kielbasa, Retreat Ideas for Ministry with Young Teens (Saint Mary's Press, 2001), the Things in Common activity, read as a search passage at https://archive.org/details/retreatideasform00mari on 2026-09-30). No prompt asks where anyone lives or grew up, what they earn or drink, or about faith, and none asks for an account security answer. Every card was compared by script on 2026-09-30 with every other list on this site: none is repeated word for word, and cards whose idea already sat on another page were rewritten. Licence: own work