Work This or That Questions for Meetings, Calls and Team Lunches

Read a pair aloud, press an answer once per hand, and see how the team split.

This or that?

All 86 questions

Desk and workspace 12

  • Assigned desk or pick a desk daily?
  • Clicky keyboard or quiet keyboard?
  • Corner desk or desk in the middle?
  • Desk plant or desk lamp?
  • Fine-tip pen or mechanical pencil?
  • Headphones on or headphones off?
  • Mouse or trackpad?
  • One big monitor or two small monitors?
  • Open floor plan or cubicle walls?
  • Snack drawer or supply drawer?
  • Warm office or cool office?
  • Whiteboard wall or sticky note wall?

Meetings 14

  • Agenda in advance or open discussion?
  • All-hands meeting or small group huddle?
  • Camera on or camera off?
  • Hand up first or jump right in?
  • Icebreaker first or straight to business?
  • Meeting recap email or meeting recording?
  • Meeting with snacks or meeting that ends early?
  • Morning meeting or afternoon meeting?
  • No-meeting Monday or no-meeting Friday?
  • Questions as you go or questions at the end?
  • Short daily check-in or one long weekly meeting?
  • Slides or shared document?
  • Stand-up meeting or sit-down meeting?
  • Walking meeting or conference room?

Email and messages 12

  • Bullet points or full paragraphs?
  • Email or chat message?
  • Emoji reactions or written replies?
  • Exclamation points or periods only?
  • Funny out-of-office note or plain out-of-office note?
  • Inbox at zero or inbox of thousands?
  • Notifications on or notifications off?
  • Quick call or long email?
  • Reply all or reply to one?
  • Reply right away or reply in batches?
  • Say hello first or ask right away?
  • Voice note or typed message?

The working day 14

  • Coffee break chat or quiet coffee break?
  • Deadline tomorrow or deadline next month?
  • Desk lunch or lunch walk?
  • Finish it tonight or fresh eyes tomorrow?
  • Focus time before lunch or focus time after lunch?
  • Friday wrap-up or monday planning?
  • Instrumental playlist or background chatter?
  • Long to-do list or top three only?
  • Lunch at eleven or lunch at two?
  • Meetings in one block or meetings spread out?
  • One thing until done or several things going?
  • Same hours every day or different hours each day?
  • Stretch break or snack break?
  • Tackle the big job or clear the small jobs?

Commute and work trips 11

  • Beat traffic early or wait traffic out?
  • Carpool or solo drive?
  • Closest parking spot or shady parking spot?
  • Coffee from home or coffee on the way?
  • Commute with a podcast or commute in silence?
  • Conference in person or conference online?
  • Drive to work or take the train?
  • Short commute or scenic commute?
  • Ten minutes early or right on time?
  • Time to think or no commute at all?
  • Work trip by train or work trip by plane?

Home days and office days 10

  • Coworkers nearby or quiet house?
  • Home office or kitchen table?
  • Laptop on the couch or laptop at a desk?
  • Lunch in your kitchen or lunch with coworkers?
  • Office on Mondays or office on Fridays?
  • Office snacks or home fridge?
  • Second screen at home or tiny laptop anywhere?
  • Video call or voice-only call?
  • Virtual background or real background?
  • Work clothes at home or comfy clothes at home?

Teamwork and projects 13

  • Ask the whole group or ask one person?
  • Big team or small team?
  • Brainstorm out loud or brainstorm on paper?
  • Feedback in the moment or feedback in writing?
  • Lead the project or support the project?
  • Pair up or work solo?
  • Plan every step or learn as you go?
  • Present the work or build the work?
  • Same project all year or new project each month?
  • Shared checklist or shared calendar?
  • Start the draft or edit the draft?
  • Teach a new skill or learn a new skill?
  • Team lunch or team volunteer day?

How it works

Work this or that questions open a meeting in under a minute: two options, one vote each, and the card shows how the team split. This deck has 86 pairs in 7 groups, from Camera on or camera off to Start the draft or edit the draft. Every pair is about the working day, never pay or rank.

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Run a round on a shared screen

Share your screen with the card up and read both options aloud. In a room, count hands and press a side once per hand. On a call, everyone types A or B in the chat at the same moment, so nobody copies the first answer. Next question swaps a pair that does not fit.

One pair a week in the team chat

Post a pair as a two-option poll on Monday: Desk lunch or lunch walk. On Friday, read out the split and ask one person from the smaller side why. Meetings (14 pairs) and Email and messages (12) give a team something to act on, such as Agenda in advance or open discussion. Home days and office days (10) suits a hybrid team.

  • New team? Open on Easy, 26 quick preferences such as Mouse or trackpad. The 21 Hard pairs are habits people defend: Inbox at zero or inbox of thousands.
  • Treat a lopsided split as a request. If the room picks Meetings in one block over Meetings spread out, from The working day (14 pairs), write it down.
  • Three pairs is plenty before an agenda. No pair comes up twice in one sitting, and Start over puts all 86 back in play.

Questions and answers

What keeps these this or that questions safe for work?

Every pair stays on the job. The deck was read against the U.S. Equal Employment Opportunity Commission's page on prohibited practices at eeoc.gov. No card asks about any characteristic it lists, among them race, religion, sex, national origin, age and disability. None asks about pay, health or family. That is an editing choice, not legal advice.

Do these work as either or questions in a team channel?

Yes. Some teams call them either or questions and run one as a weekly poll. All 86 sit under the deck, under the same 7 headings as the topics. The list is original to this site, so paste any pair into a poll or a slide.

Where do the votes go?

They stay on this phone or computer. Votes are not sent anywhere, so the host's screen is the only scoreboard. A pair keeps its count between sittings, so a second team's votes add to the first.