This or That Secret Santa Questions

Print a sheet of quick pairs, and each person circles one of each for whoever drew their name.

  1. Woodsy scents or sweet scents?
  2. Jam or honey?
  3. Toffee or shortbread?
  4. A kit to make something or a book to learn from?
  5. Gift card or wrapped surprise?
  6. For the trail or for the sofa?
  7. Big mug or travel cup?
  8. Fits in a pocket or sits on a shelf?
  9. Dark shades or pastels?
  10. Handmade or factory-perfect?
  11. Homemade cookies or bakery cookies?
  12. Blanket or slippers?
  13. For weekdays or for weekends?
  14. Candle or no candle?
  15. Peppermint or gingerbread?
  16. Wool or cotton?
  17. Seeds to plant or spices to cook with?
  18. A lap blanket or a lap tray?
  19. Learn my Santa's name or keep the mystery?
  20. An audiobook or a paperback?

How it works

These this or that Secret Santa questions print as a circle-one sheet: quick pairs, such as Truffles or a plain bar?, under lines for a name, the spending limit and a hand-in date. Press Print this list.

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Print it, then circle on paper

The list on screen is a preview of the sheet, and the circling happens on paper with a pen. Press Print this list and make a copy for each person in the draw. Everyone circles one choice in every pair, then ticks the box beside the three pairs their Santa should start with.

A work sheet or a family sheet

In the menu under the button, choose Work sheet for pairs an office can hand round: treats, desk things, colors, and how the gift is wrapped. Family sheet swaps the desk pairs for home ones, such as Blanket or slippers. Pick 20 new pairs changes the mix until the sheet suits your group.

Tips
  • Write the spending limit and the hand-in date on one printed copy before you photocopy it.
  • These work as this or that gift questions for any draw: a birthday, a teacher's gift, a team farewell.

Questions and answers

What are good this or that questions for Secret Santa?

Pairs a shopper can act on: Gummies or lollipops? Scented or unscented? Novel or cookbook? Gift card or wrapped surprise? Each answer crosses half the options off a giver's list.

How is this different from a Secret Santa questionnaire?

The questionnaire asks open questions, each with a line to write on, and ends with three wishes. This sheet only asks people to circle, so it is quick to fill in and names no wish. Some groups hand out both.

Can I save the sheet as a PDF?

Yes, through your browser. Press Print this list and choose Save as PDF in the print box. The file holds the pairs on screen, the three lines at the top and the four instructions.

All 60 pairs

Treats and drinks 10

  • Cheesy popcorn or kettle corn?
  • Gummies or lollipops?
  • Homemade cookies or bakery cookies?
  • Jam or honey?
  • Peppermint or gingerbread?
  • Syrup for pancakes or sauce for ice cream?
  • Toffee or shortbread?
  • Treats to pass round the office or treats to hide in a drawer?
  • Truffles or a plain bar?
  • With nuts or without nuts?

Cozy things 10

  • A lap blanket or a lap tray?
  • Big mug or travel cup?
  • Blanket or slippers?
  • Earmuffs or a headband?
  • Fairy lights or a reading lamp?
  • Flannel or fleece?
  • Quilted or knitted?
  • Scarf or beanie?
  • Socks that shout or socks that whisper?
  • Wool or cotton?

Hobbies and free time 10

  • A book of mazes or a book of riddles?
  • A game for one or a game for a crowd?
  • A houseplant or a window feeder?
  • A kit to make something or a book to learn from?
  • A nice notebook or a sketchpad?
  • An audiobook or a paperback?
  • For the trail or for the sofa?
  • Novel or cookbook?
  • Seeds to plant or spices to cook with?
  • Trivia cards or a brain teaser?

Colors and scents 10

  • Bold colors or soft neutrals?
  • Candle or no candle?
  • Citrus scents or floral scents?
  • Dark shades or pastels?
  • Festive colors or year-round colors?
  • Glitter or no glitter?
  • Plaid or stripes?
  • Scented or unscented?
  • Solid colors or busy prints?
  • Woodsy scents or sweet scents?

Useful or fun 10

  • A new thing to try or an old favorite?
  • Classic or the latest thing?
  • Fits in a pocket or sits on a shelf?
  • For my desk or for my bag?
  • For my mornings or for my evenings?
  • For weekdays or for weekends?
  • Gone by January or kept for years?
  • Handmade or factory-perfect?
  • Runs on batteries or runs on nothing?
  • Something green for my desk or something to fidget with?

Surprise or sure thing 10

  • Fancy wrapping or plain brown paper?
  • Gift card or wrapped surprise?
  • Hints all week or no hints at all?
  • Learn my Santa's name or keep the mystery?
  • Left at my desk or handed over in person?
  • Receipt in the bag or no receipt?
  • Shake the box first or just open it?
  • Unwrap it in front of everyone or unwrap it later?
  • Unwrap mine first or unwrap mine last?
  • Wrapped to show its shape or wrapped to hide it?
How this list was compiled

Written for this site by the Game Night Generator editors on 2026-10-01: every pair is our own wording, written so that either answer tells a gift giver something to shop from. No shop, brand or product is named, no pair asks about a size, a body or a drink for adults, and the work sheet leaves out the pairs about home. Checked by script against our Secret Santa questionnaire and every this or that deck on this site: no pair here repeats a question or a pair there. No fact is stated. Licence: own work