This or That Questions for Teens

Press an answer to vote, see which way the room leans, then press Next question.

This or that?

All 110 questions

High school days 16

  • Backpack or tote bag?
  • Block schedule or seven short periods?
  • Elective you love or easy elective?
  • First bell at seven or first bell at nine?
  • Foreign language class or computer science class?
  • Free period or extra elective?
  • Hallway shortcut or long way around?
  • Handwritten notes or typed notes?
  • Lab partner you know or lab partner who's new?
  • Locker by your friends or locker by your classes?
  • Loud homeroom or silent homeroom?
  • Lunch off campus or lunch in the courtyard?
  • Pep rally or extra study hall?
  • Spirit week or regular week?
  • Teacher who jokes or strict but fair teacher?
  • Yearbook photo retake or keep the first one?

Studying and tests 16

  • Ask in class or ask after class?
  • Cram the night before or a little each day?
  • Essay test or problem set test?
  • Extra credit project or one more quiz?
  • Final exam or final project?
  • Highlighters or sticky tabs?
  • Homework right after school or homework after dinner?
  • Library table or bedroom desk?
  • Oral presentation or written report?
  • Review sheet or review video?
  • Rewrite your notes or reread your notes?
  • Slides presentation or poster presentation?
  • Summer class or summer off?
  • Teach a friend or quiz yourself?
  • Timed practice test or untimed review?
  • Tutor a classmate or get tutored?

First jobs and money 16

  • Babysitting or dog walking?
  • Busy shift or slow shift?
  • Cash in an envelope or money in an account?
  • Interview in person or interview on video?
  • Job close to home or job that pays more?
  • Movie theater counter or pool snack stand?
  • Mow lawns or wash cars?
  • Save for a car or save for a trip?
  • Save it all or spend a little?
  • Scoop ice cream or bag groceries?
  • Summer job or summer volunteering?
  • Tutor younger kids or referee youth games?
  • Weekend shifts or after-school shifts?
  • Work the register or stock the shelves?
  • Work uniform or your own clothes?
  • Work with friends or work with new people?

Friends and hanging out 16

  • Apologize first or wait it out?
  • Basement hangout or backyard hangout?
  • Bike there or get a ride?
  • Friend who's blunt or friend who's gentle?
  • Friends from school or friends from elsewhere?
  • Friends since kindergarten or friends since this year?
  • Give advice or just listen?
  • Group chat or one-on-one chat?
  • Hang out at home or hang out in town?
  • Mall food court or park picnic table?
  • Matching costumes or solo costume?
  • Photo booth pictures or candid pictures?
  • Plans made weeks ahead or plans made that day?
  • Reply in a minute or reply tonight?
  • Share a playlist or share a meme?
  • Split the snacks or bring your own?

Sports, clubs and stages 15

  • Art show or poetry slam?
  • Debate team or mock trial?
  • Food drive or park cleanup?
  • Friday night game or saturday morning game?
  • Gym workout or outdoor run?
  • Lead role or stage crew?
  • Personal best or first place?
  • Pit orchestra or pep band?
  • Play in the game or cheer in the stands?
  • Practice before school or practice after school?
  • Relay race or solo race?
  • Run the club or join the club?
  • School newspaper or school podcast?
  • Tournament weekend or free weekend?
  • Varsity bench or junior varsity starter?

Music, shows and games 15

  • Album start to finish or shuffle everything?
  • Co-op game or versus game?
  • Concert floor or concert seats?
  • Earbuds or over-ear headphones?
  • Handheld console or big-screen console?
  • Learn the dance or learn the lyrics?
  • Live stream or edited video?
  • Lyrics first or beat first?
  • Make videos or watch videos?
  • Opening night or wait for streaming?
  • Playlist or podcast?
  • Short videos or long videos?
  • Show everyone watches or show nobody knows?
  • Story mode or online multiplayer?
  • Watch with friends or watch alone?

After high school 16

  • Big university or small college?
  • Campus tour in person or virtual campus tour?
  • College near home or college far away?
  • Dorm room or apartment with roommates?
  • Gap year or straight to school?
  • Highway driving or city driving?
  • Know your major now or figure it out later?
  • Learn to cook or learn to budget?
  • License at sixteen or wait a few years?
  • Old car that's yours or new car you share?
  • Parallel park or three-point turn?
  • Roommate you know or random roommate?
  • Stick shift or automatic?
  • Study abroad or stay on campus?
  • Trade school or four-year degree?
  • Work for yourself or work for a company?

How it works

These this or that questions for teens are written for ages 13 to 17: 110 short pairs about high school, first jobs, friends and what comes after graduation. One press is one vote, and the totals show which way the room leans. None is about dating, looks or grades, and the full list sits under the deck.

Read the full guide

Play it in advisory or on a bus

In a small group, pass one phone so each player presses a side. In a classroom, read both options aloud and have students walk to one side of the room, so the crowds are the vote. Next question swaps a pair a player would rather skip. Totals stay on this phone or computer.

Pick the topic by grade

For freshmen and sophomores, High school days and Studying and tests (16 pairs each) stay inside the building: Cram the night before or a little each day. First jobs and money (16) sticks to work a teenager might do: Work the register or stock the shelves. Juniors and seniors get more from After high school (16): Trade school or four-year degree. It is the last topic under Topic.

  • Start on Easy, 35 quick picks such as Earbuds or over-ear headphones. The 30 Hard pairs take longer: Summer job or summer volunteering.
  • Advisers can open a planning talk with After high school. A vote for Gap year is a move in a game, not a decision, so ask why and move on.
  • Coaches: pick Sports, clubs and stages (15 pairs) on the ride to a meet. Friends and hanging out (16) and Music, shows and games (15) are the lightest.

Questions and answers

What ages is the teen deck written for?

Ages 13 to 17. The pairs assume a class schedule, a first job in sight and thoughts past graduation. First jobs and money names only ordinary part-time and odd jobs, such as Babysitting or dog walking.

Are these clean enough for a classroom or a youth group?

Yes. No pair is about dating, crushes, looks, bodies or grades, and none asks a player to rank the people in the room. No app, game, show or brand is named, so no student is left out for not knowing one.

How is this different from the kids deck?

The kids deck runs from kindergarten to grade 8, with sight words, recess and a Middle school group. This one trades those for block schedules, shift work, driving and college choices, and its Hard pairs are trade-offs, such as Job close to home or job that pays more. No pair appears in both.